Here you can read the comments about the Bulgarian TV show Nicky Kanchev pod naem (approximately Nicky Kanchev on Rent) in which was told the story of Emilia Stoicheva who is going on the way of positive transformation. The comments are connected to both the broadcast and the impact of Theory of Cogitality on the changes that may happen for one person and the transformation in her life… In the end of the comments you can read Emilia’s opinion about all the feedback she has received.

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Hello Emi!

I’m very happy about you, really very happy. Today I watched with so much tenderness the TV show... and the bad thing about it was that I was crying in so much moments… By the way, I know about The Black Book because of my work in the bookstore before. The book looked really interesting, I read several pages but now I have the opportunity to read it all. :)

I'll  be happy to understand more about this theory, of course – it will be useful for me as well. I was really, really touched by today’s episode, especially when you said you didn’t have motivation and goals. I’m principally a person who is able to self-motivate, I’m not sure if I have a goal, but I have dreams which I want to realize. Recently I’m not sure whether I truly want them or not, what do I want at all, how to reach it, etc… Everything pushes you down, you don’t trust people, you don’t have the interest to talk to them (it is all  so untypical to me that I’m afraid of antisocialization, so I’m working on preventing this. (In this sense, I was laughing so much when they sent you to those strangers on the street. It was really funny!) It is obvious that we have a lot of things to tell each other:) And this is so fine – who could guess it… The idea about the seminars is really interesting…

You are superb. I was very happy about you today and I hope I will see the next part of the TV show J

Good Luck!

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It is superb what you are doing… Know that Ivomir IS A REAL GENEOUS… HE KNOWS MUCH, MUCH, MUCH…

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I couldn’t endure till the end of the broadcast. However, for four years in this subject (psychology – note) how couldn’t you develop a bit of critical thinking? John Kehoe, are you serious?

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I saw the TV show “Nicky Kanchev pod naem” and it was really interesting to me.I have tried regression a lot of times but it didn’t work. I have a lot of phobias. This is why I wanted to understand what happened to you. I was to the John Kehoe’s seminar organized by Ivomir. I’m reading a lot of esoteric… And… I felt you somehow very close to me.

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Hello Emi! First of all I would like to present myself to you… I don’t know you and I don’t know whether you will or won’t read this. But I decided to contact you. I watched your case in the broadcast “Niki Kanchev pod naem”. When I saw the first episode, when you were explaining all the problems you had and how you wanted to change them, I had the feeling that I was talking about myself. Almost everything you said describes the way I’m feeling. I’ll try to tell you what happened to me…

Principally, I’ve always had a bit of negative thinking, since I remember myself. But my true problems started about 5-6 years ago… (the personal story). But the reasons are not so important. Then, I started to go to dozens of all types of doctors (to find what was wrong with me) and I had the feeling I was really physically ill. And so, till the moment I understood that my problem was somewhere else. Then I collected my powers and went to a psychiatrist which is one of the bravest things I’ve ever done, as you said in one of the episodes of the broadcast. He prescribed me antidepressants… And to tell you the truth, there was an effect but not so good for me to feel better or “healed”. After that and until  today, in my life doesn’t happen anything positive that could make me feel good. I have the same troubles – I’m afraid that people think bad and always want to hurt me, I’m never content of myself, I hardly ever become close with other people (even those who I know since a long time), I don’t show my feelings and emotions, I’m afraid to look into another person’s eyes, I don’t trust anyone, etc., etc…

I’ve heard and read about the way we think and that everything that happens to you is actually a reflection of our own thoughts… but I’ve never accepted this idea. I just couldn’t explain how is it possible and it seems still strange to me. But with every day passed, I have the feeling it is all true and this is the problem with me. My way of thinking is the obstacle for everything I do or, respectively – don’t do.

My appeal to you is that you just direct me where to start from because, to tell you the truth, I don’t know. Will it be fine to first meet Ivomir Dimchev and probably – you, or I’d better meet Alexey Shadrin and his therapy. Or maybe the woman youmet in the episode today – Lily Hristova. I will be sincere – the two therapies I saw (regression and holotropic breathwork - note) seemed very insane to me and I’m skeptical about them. But I would try everything to change my way of thinking and my life… Especially when I saw what was the result for you. Where do you I should start from? Whom should I first meet and who? I thank you and I’m sorry for the long and detailed letter, but this is the way I describe things best.

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Emi, you’re a very nice person – I saw you in “Niki Kanchev pod naem”. Probably a lot of people write to you yet. Could I ask for your Skype and Facebook if it’s possible – we can chat about some things… I’m 24 year-old, thank you in advance. Good luck.

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A lot of science, “colleague”, a lot! I don’t have anything against the individual esoteric, spiritual, cabalistic, occult, and other such practices, but to present them like they are science… is just charlatanism or ignorance! (about the theory of cogitality – note)

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Emi, why do you think that I’ve not read enough from “The Black Book” I don’t know, but this is not so important. Criticism is not a “high assessment”, nor something insulting or bad… The important thing is the essence of it all. When it is fake, distorted, or “binded” (as I think it is in this case – about the Theory of cogitality - note) it should be discussed, pointed, named, and criticized. But of course, you should be at least a little self-aware and informed.

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It is very brave of you, I’m happy that you progress so fast, I hope that the thoughts about the high school doesn’t take much of your energy. I’m very often in situations when I look back and think about my past actions, I realize how bad I behaved and I’m sorry about it all… But it doesn’t matter so much as people change, right?

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I’m asking you when does your acquaintance with Ivomir start from, because according to youe e-mails and other information…, it starts before your recent touching “meeting” in the broadcast “Nicky Kanchev pod naem”. There you play the role of the timid girl who wants to change her life and they meet you with Ivomir.

I wonder from whom I should be more disappointed – from the show which shows people made up stories (which is normal, of course), or from you and your idol who search for cheap publicity for the theory (of cogitality – note). If the theory was so “elevated” and inspired, it wouldn’t need such funny advertising, and would find a better spiritual way to the people…

For those who are curious - http://play.novatv.bg/play/258045/?autostart=true – a link to the show.

Excuse me for the harsh tone, I just think that spiritually grown people wouldn’t need anything like this – media lies…

P.S.: And… you shouldn’t have written “Ï would invite you without any money” (to a seminar Theory of cogitality – note) – we are all in the system and “cheese should be paid”, but… at least we shouldn’t be hypocrite!

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I think that some people in this subject (psychology – note) doesn’t want to help people but wondered how to enter it, with the small hope of fixing their personal problems… But it seems that things don’t happen this way. For four years some of us showed it.

Good luck! With this “negative” advertisement you entered yourself, you’d need it for your following realization… and for your friendship with the others. Some people would surely follow this cheap “advertisement” but this is for them.

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Hello dear Emi!

I saw by case your post in Facebook about the broadcast you participated in and I couldn’t wait to write to you! Wow!

I’m definitely surprised! I didn’t know that you have such feelings and troubles even though I’ve noticed you were a kind of timid. I felt it a little sad that we spent three years together and I didn’t understand anything about you. I had decided that you already started the way to yourself because of the books and seminars you talk about recently. And I wondered how it all happened… Probably the TV show was the last step, right?

I was also surprised that you were able to participate in this show – because this is a kind of act (at least for me it seems so) to face everything you are afraid of – at least so much people would see you, including those who “know” you, and there will be all kind of comments. Despite all of this, you were brave to make this first step! I admire this!

I just want to greet you and tell you that I’m sincerely happy about your personal victory over yourself! One of the hardest things is that one person overcomes himself! Well done for your patience and constancy!

I want to wish you from all my heart that you go on going the path to your personal growth, working on yourself, and believing in yourself. Let love be everywhere in your life and yourself!

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I read the whole book (The Black Book – note) and watched the whole broadcast, Emi. They had given me the book “Mind Power over the 21^st Century” and I also read it. In the begging I thought that the idea is interesting but it didn’t work for me. J Probably it is not for me. There are other things I’m experimenting on and they definitely show me that mind is not the only motive power in man and it absolutely doesn’t have the whole power. But this is another question which is so individually important as individually important are John Kehoe’s methods for you.

So I just want to express my support for you have found something working for you. It doesn’t matter how scientific or not it is. The important thing is that it “works” for you.

For me it doesn’t work, for another one it would also not work, for still another it would be just “truth” – according to the personal experience. It doesn’t matter if someone will accept it or not – if it works for you, then it is FOR you.

I thank you that you shared with us with good intentions. There is nothing universal for anyone – it is all strictly personal. If I would criticize, it would be from my point of personal experience. But this doesn’t exclude the possibility that the theory is valid for other people. In this sence every other critic is so “global” as global as the subjective opinion ;)

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Emi’s comment about all the others:

I received all kinds of opinions – from close people, known and unknown… I received both comments from inspired people who say they have similar problems and desire to change themselves, as well as criticism from people who think that the broadcast was “made up” and distorted. The truth is that going on the way to yourself… takes time. Time which wasn’t well told in the show (more than one month – at least three months real work and desire for change). I convinced myself that without this desire and constant acting for it, there is no way for things to happen… I also realized that Theory of Cogitality leads you to a real deep transformation that requires patience and desire for change…

After the comments I received, it became clear to me that there is no way for all the people like and approve what I’m going in (the theory of cogitality). I also realized there was no way some people stagger or deny the possibility for change in so short time through the help of one theory, without “solid consultations” and “approved methods”… However, I experienced it, now I know that things happen and the theory comes to really be true practice of life. It is sad that some people are skeptical and  prejudiced, but I also accept their  right of opinion. For myself I know that without the theory and ivomir’s help, I would still be the same girl who told her story in the first episode of the show… The unfortunate and unconfident girl… The girl who couldn’t bear any criticism and who is now ready to accept the right of personal opinion (without accepting it personally)…

The girl who is now sharing with you that there is a way to happiness, to the beauty and positive side of life! And this way is for all of us, inside all of us! Now I believe in this and I realized that everything else are self-delusions that separate us from our true essence. There is meaning to turn back to ourselves and experience happiness! I believe it! I believe in… the change, the transformation, the possibility that everyone of us experiences happiness. I believe in myself – for the first time in my life, I believe…